Behind the Mic: Building Confidence as a Podcast Host – PCI 474
If you’ve ever hit record and immediately felt your heart race, you’re not alone. Sitting behind a microphone can feel surprisingly vulnerable — even if you’re completely comfortable talking in everyday life. The truth is, confidence in podcasting doesn’t magically appear. It’s built over time, shaped by repetition, structure, and a willingness to grow in public. In this episode, we’re breaking down what actually creates confidence behind the mic — and why feeling a little awkward at first isn’t a red flag… it’s part of the process.
Today’s Hosts: Dave Clements and MacKenzie Bennett
Building Confidence as a Podcast Host
1. Confidence Isn’t a Personality Trait — It’s a Skill
A lot of people assume confident hosts are naturally outgoing or extroverted.
That’s not always true.
Some of the most confident podcasters are actually introverts who simply learned how to get comfortable in their format.
Confidence grows from repetition and familiarity.
What actually builds it:
- Clear episode structure
- Recording often enough that it stops feeling “new”
- Regular publishing cadence
The mic feels intimidating when it’s unfamiliar. It feels normal when it’s routine.
2. Your First Episodes Are Supposed to Feel Awkward
There’s this pressure to sound polished immediately.
But early episodes are where you discover:
- Your pacing
- Your tone
- Your rhythm
- Your transitions
If you wait to feel confident before publishing, you’ll wait forever.
What actually works:
- Accepting that improvement happens publicly
- Measuring progress over perfection
- Letting your audience grow with you
No one starts smooth. They become smooth.
3. Structure Reduces Nerves
Most hosting anxiety comes from uncertainty.
“What do I say next?”
“Am I rambling?”
“Did that make sense?”
A simple outline can eliminate most of that.
What actually works:
- Bullet points instead of paragraphs
- A defined beginning, middle, and end
- Knowing the purpose of the episode before recording
When you know your direction, your delivery improves automatically.
4. Stop Performing — Start Talking
Many hosts tense up because they think they need to “sound like a podcaster.”
But your audience isn’t looking for a performance. They’re looking for connection.
What actually works:
- Imagining one listener instead of a crowd
- Using conversational language
- Letting small imperfections stay in
The more you sound like yourself, the more confident you’ll feel.
5. Confidence Comes From Consistency
You don’t build confidence in a single episode.
You build it by showing up repeatedly.
- The more episodes you record:
- The less you overthink
- The less you second-guess
- The more you trust your instincts
Over time, the microphone stops feeling like a spotlight and starts feeling like a tool.
And that’s when confidence really settles in.
For the best support, please use our Blubrry ticket system so our full team can help. Join the Blubrry Podcasting Facebook Group for general podcasting discussion.
Share your feedback at surveys.blubrry.com/podcastinsider.
Blubrry hosting customers can schedule a one-on-one tech checkup with Mike (mike@blubrry.com)
00:00 - Introduction & Episode Topic
00:59 - Confidence as a Podcasting Skill
04:31 - Practice & Consistency
08:01 - Structure & Outlines
09:31 - Know the Episode's Purpose
11:12 - Performance vs Natural Conversation
12:11 - Practical Hosting Tips (One Listener, Imperfections)
16:49 - Use Voice Notes to Practice
17:56 - Wrap-Up & Next Steps
00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,639
Welcome back to Podcast Insider. I'm Dave Clemens
2
00:00:02,639 --> 00:00:04,799
from the support and media team here at
3
00:00:04,799 --> 00:00:05,299
Blueberry.
4
00:00:05,679 --> 00:00:08,240
And I'm Mackenzie Bennett, director of marketing at
5
00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:08,740
Blueberry.
6
00:00:09,359 --> 00:00:11,519
Today, we're gonna talk about something that probably
7
00:00:11,519 --> 00:00:13,380
doesn't get discussed enough in podcasting,
8
00:00:14,234 --> 00:00:16,015
your confidence as a host.
9
00:00:16,394 --> 00:00:18,875
Yeah. That's fun. So, yeah, we're we're gonna
10
00:00:18,875 --> 00:00:21,274
we're gonna pivot a bit and focus on
11
00:00:21,274 --> 00:00:23,675
you behind the microphone. We're not gonna talk
12
00:00:23,675 --> 00:00:25,355
about downloads. We're not gonna talk about gear.
13
00:00:25,355 --> 00:00:27,515
We're not gonna talk about growth strategy. We
14
00:00:27,515 --> 00:00:28,710
talk about those things a lot.
15
00:00:29,589 --> 00:00:31,509
Yes. Because if you don't feel confident when
16
00:00:31,509 --> 00:00:32,329
you hit record,
17
00:00:32,869 --> 00:00:35,109
all of that, everything else just feels so
18
00:00:35,109 --> 00:00:36,809
much harder than it needs to be.
19
00:00:39,189 --> 00:00:41,049
You're listening to Podcast Insider
20
00:00:41,414 --> 00:00:44,134
hosted by Mike Dell, Mackenzie Bennett, and Dave
21
00:00:44,134 --> 00:00:44,634
Clements.
22
00:00:45,575 --> 00:00:48,454
We're bringing you weekly insights, advice, and insider
23
00:00:48,454 --> 00:00:50,454
tips and tricks to help you start, grow,
24
00:00:50,454 --> 00:00:51,835
and thrive through podcasting,
25
00:00:52,215 --> 00:00:53,814
all with the support of your team here
26
00:00:53,814 --> 00:00:54,475
at Blueberry.
27
00:00:54,934 --> 00:00:56,640
Welcome. Let's dive in.
28
00:00:59,119 --> 00:01:00,340
Hosting a podcast,
29
00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:04,479
isn't really just about having something to say
30
00:01:04,479 --> 00:01:06,959
because we all do, but it is it
31
00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:08,719
is about making it an art form and
32
00:01:08,719 --> 00:01:09,780
saying it clearly,
33
00:01:10,079 --> 00:01:11,540
comfortably, and consistently.
34
00:01:12,355 --> 00:01:14,834
So you definitely have to have confidence to
35
00:01:14,834 --> 00:01:16,834
make that possible, and and we all mess
36
00:01:16,834 --> 00:01:18,135
it up sometimes.
37
00:01:19,155 --> 00:01:19,974
We're human.
38
00:01:20,834 --> 00:01:23,234
Yes. Yes. We all mess that up. That
39
00:01:23,234 --> 00:01:24,615
is absolutely true.
40
00:01:26,159 --> 00:01:27,599
But but I think this is a good
41
00:01:27,599 --> 00:01:28,420
thing to remember
42
00:01:29,119 --> 00:01:31,599
that the confidence is not a personality trait.
43
00:01:31,599 --> 00:01:33,920
It is a skill. It is a skill
44
00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:35,140
that you have to,
45
00:01:36,159 --> 00:01:36,899
to train
46
00:01:37,439 --> 00:01:40,079
and and use very much like a muscle.
47
00:01:40,079 --> 00:01:41,540
You use it, you lose it.
48
00:01:42,034 --> 00:01:44,914
Yeah. I've I'm running into that doing this
49
00:01:44,914 --> 00:01:46,754
show, and I hope nobody can tell. I
50
00:01:46,754 --> 00:01:48,454
hope I'm faking it well enough.
51
00:01:49,155 --> 00:01:50,215
I think so.
52
00:01:50,594 --> 00:01:52,614
I I don't I I don't
53
00:01:52,994 --> 00:01:54,594
I don't make as much content as I
54
00:01:54,594 --> 00:01:56,790
used to. I still love doing it. I
55
00:01:56,790 --> 00:01:58,150
just don't make as much as I used
56
00:01:58,150 --> 00:02:00,090
to. And I'm used to hosting
57
00:02:00,549 --> 00:02:02,650
my own show, being the person
58
00:02:03,109 --> 00:02:04,090
behind the microphone.
59
00:02:04,870 --> 00:02:05,370
So,
60
00:02:05,829 --> 00:02:07,350
a lot of this is very much an
61
00:02:07,350 --> 00:02:08,969
act because I have not
62
00:02:09,335 --> 00:02:10,634
polished that skill
63
00:02:11,254 --> 00:02:13,115
of of being confident.
64
00:02:13,735 --> 00:02:14,235
And,
65
00:02:14,854 --> 00:02:17,675
you know, I think I think most introverts
66
00:02:17,735 --> 00:02:19,334
know how to do this pretty well. We
67
00:02:19,334 --> 00:02:20,074
can mask
68
00:02:21,014 --> 00:02:22,314
pretty well. Yeah.
69
00:02:23,014 --> 00:02:25,879
Because I think a lot of podcasters, not
70
00:02:25,879 --> 00:02:28,060
all of them, but a lot of podcasters
71
00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:30,699
are actually just introverts that are like,
72
00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:32,759
I have this really cool thing I wanna
73
00:02:32,759 --> 00:02:33,500
talk about.
74
00:02:34,599 --> 00:02:37,400
So I'm gonna try. And it's easy to
75
00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:38,939
do when you're home alone
76
00:02:39,995 --> 00:02:40,894
in your little
77
00:02:41,275 --> 00:02:41,775
space.
78
00:02:42,074 --> 00:02:42,574
Yeah.
79
00:02:43,034 --> 00:02:45,435
But, yeah, it's definitely a skill. It it
80
00:02:45,435 --> 00:02:47,514
does not come naturally. Do not go back
81
00:02:47,514 --> 00:02:48,495
and listen to
82
00:02:48,875 --> 00:02:50,334
early episodes of
83
00:02:50,634 --> 00:02:52,314
any of my shows from, like, twelve years
84
00:02:52,314 --> 00:02:53,775
ago. Please don't do that.
85
00:02:55,199 --> 00:02:56,099
You know, actually,
86
00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:57,219
I think,
87
00:02:59,199 --> 00:03:02,580
yeah, definitely, podcasters can probably have this, like,
88
00:03:03,439 --> 00:03:05,939
reputation of maybe being extremely extroverted
89
00:03:06,879 --> 00:03:09,199
and outgoing and stuff like that. But also,
90
00:03:09,199 --> 00:03:09,840
at the same time
91
00:03:10,675 --> 00:03:13,474
yeah, the podcaster is just, like, super chatty
92
00:03:13,474 --> 00:03:15,395
about this one thing that they wanna talk
93
00:03:15,395 --> 00:03:17,814
about, not about necessarily everything.
94
00:03:18,194 --> 00:03:18,675
Right.
95
00:03:19,074 --> 00:03:20,354
So I think that,
96
00:03:20,754 --> 00:03:22,435
a podcast is a good way for that
97
00:03:22,435 --> 00:03:23,414
to shine through.
98
00:03:23,955 --> 00:03:24,455
But
99
00:03:25,599 --> 00:03:27,860
it's definitely true for the two of us.
100
00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:28,740
You know?
101
00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,639
I can be very chatty, but at the
102
00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:31,460
end of the day,
103
00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:33,300
I'm gonna need to go
104
00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:35,860
hang out by myself for a while.
105
00:03:36,319 --> 00:03:36,819
Exactly.
106
00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:37,860
Yeah.
107
00:03:38,319 --> 00:03:40,694
And a big thing to remember is that
108
00:03:40,935 --> 00:03:42,875
this confidence that you might hear,
109
00:03:44,055 --> 00:03:45,675
yeah, it's put on a little bit.
110
00:03:46,055 --> 00:03:46,555
But
111
00:03:47,254 --> 00:03:47,754
that
112
00:03:48,615 --> 00:03:50,935
there there is kind of this core confidence
113
00:03:50,935 --> 00:03:52,455
that we have where, like, we know what
114
00:03:52,455 --> 00:03:53,594
we're talking about.
115
00:03:55,009 --> 00:03:55,509
But
116
00:03:55,889 --> 00:03:57,489
the more we do it, you know, the
117
00:03:57,489 --> 00:03:58,389
more repetition
118
00:03:59,009 --> 00:04:01,090
and the more familiar it is, like, the
119
00:04:01,090 --> 00:04:01,590
more
120
00:04:02,370 --> 00:04:04,449
the two of us get used to talking
121
00:04:04,449 --> 00:04:07,169
to each other in this format rather than
122
00:04:07,169 --> 00:04:07,989
just meetings
123
00:04:08,394 --> 00:04:10,634
or or, you know, throwing Mike in here
124
00:04:10,634 --> 00:04:13,354
or whatever the configuration is, the better the
125
00:04:13,354 --> 00:04:16,254
show gets. And that's why you've probably heard
126
00:04:16,634 --> 00:04:18,814
over the last little bit as we've changed
127
00:04:18,875 --> 00:04:22,410
things. I'm growing into my role as a
128
00:04:22,410 --> 00:04:22,910
cohost.
129
00:04:24,250 --> 00:04:26,889
You know? So so it's just that that
130
00:04:26,889 --> 00:04:28,589
repetition and familiarity
131
00:04:28,889 --> 00:04:30,110
that that really helps.
132
00:04:31,050 --> 00:04:32,029
Yeah. Especially
133
00:04:32,569 --> 00:04:35,274
since we do this show every week. You
134
00:04:35,274 --> 00:04:37,295
know, we have a regular publishing schedule,
135
00:04:37,754 --> 00:04:39,754
and so that means we gotta get episodes
136
00:04:39,754 --> 00:04:40,254
out
137
00:04:40,795 --> 00:04:43,375
on on that schedule that we've set and
138
00:04:43,915 --> 00:04:45,295
and people can expect.
139
00:04:46,074 --> 00:04:48,074
So I think that definitely helps as well.
140
00:04:48,074 --> 00:04:48,574
It's
141
00:04:50,139 --> 00:04:51,839
everything to do with podcasting.
142
00:04:52,779 --> 00:04:54,379
If you have not already worked in some
143
00:04:54,379 --> 00:04:56,000
type of content creation,
144
00:04:58,060 --> 00:04:59,740
especially when you're put in front of a
145
00:04:59,740 --> 00:05:02,079
microphone, can probably feel intimidating
146
00:05:02,379 --> 00:05:03,920
just because it is so unfamiliar.
147
00:05:04,860 --> 00:05:05,360
But
148
00:05:05,714 --> 00:05:06,214
I've
149
00:05:06,675 --> 00:05:08,915
been behind the microphone in some capacity on
150
00:05:08,915 --> 00:05:10,455
a regular basis since,
151
00:05:11,555 --> 00:05:12,455
2010.
152
00:05:12,595 --> 00:05:14,754
So I I don't I literally don't really
153
00:05:14,754 --> 00:05:15,735
think about it anymore.
154
00:05:16,115 --> 00:05:16,615
Yeah.
155
00:05:16,995 --> 00:05:19,254
Yeah. And those those first episodes,
156
00:05:19,879 --> 00:05:21,560
while I joke about please don't go and
157
00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:22,459
listen to them,
158
00:05:23,479 --> 00:05:26,360
like, they're supposed to be awkward. They're supposed
159
00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:27,579
to be weird because
160
00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,360
this is where you're learning. Well, what is
161
00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,439
your pacing? What is your tone? What is
162
00:05:32,439 --> 00:05:34,300
your rhythm? How do you transition?
163
00:05:34,904 --> 00:05:35,404
We
164
00:05:35,865 --> 00:05:36,365
still,
165
00:05:36,985 --> 00:05:37,485
like,
166
00:05:37,865 --> 00:05:39,964
Mike and I recorded an episode recently,
167
00:05:40,504 --> 00:05:43,705
and Kate, our editor, was like, yeah. You
168
00:05:43,705 --> 00:05:45,165
guys are the kings of
169
00:05:45,545 --> 00:05:47,225
you knows. Yeah. And I was like, yes.
170
00:05:47,225 --> 00:05:48,824
That is my middle name. And I've been
171
00:05:48,824 --> 00:05:49,884
doing this for,
172
00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:52,100
you know, almost a decade and a half.
173
00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:52,980
So,
174
00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:54,339
yeah.
175
00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:57,600
Be be weird and be awkward and figure
176
00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,160
out who you are because that is what
177
00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:01,220
your show becomes.
178
00:06:03,014 --> 00:06:05,894
Yeah. Your your podcast can absolutely feel like
179
00:06:05,894 --> 00:06:08,074
you're phoning it in sometimes, so
180
00:06:08,694 --> 00:06:10,154
that's not the,
181
00:06:11,574 --> 00:06:13,334
that's not the quality that you wanna put
182
00:06:13,334 --> 00:06:14,475
out. So Right.
183
00:06:15,029 --> 00:06:17,770
Your first episodes are supposed to feel awkward.
184
00:06:17,830 --> 00:06:19,589
Everything about them is probably gonna be a
185
00:06:19,589 --> 00:06:22,230
little bit different. You know? But if you
186
00:06:22,230 --> 00:06:24,310
if you wait to feel confident before publishing,
187
00:06:24,310 --> 00:06:27,129
you're you're just never gonna do it. Mhmm.
188
00:06:28,310 --> 00:06:29,830
Like, you have to,
189
00:06:31,004 --> 00:06:32,225
accept that movement
190
00:06:33,805 --> 00:06:35,185
or the the improvement
191
00:06:35,645 --> 00:06:38,365
that happens with your podcast is gonna happen
192
00:06:38,365 --> 00:06:38,865
publicly.
193
00:06:40,205 --> 00:06:42,205
That that Yeah. That is true for any
194
00:06:42,205 --> 00:06:43,279
type of content
195
00:06:43,699 --> 00:06:44,199
creation,
196
00:06:44,620 --> 00:06:46,371
I think, is that, you know, people are
197
00:06:46,371 --> 00:06:47,740
gonna know that it's happening. And and it's
198
00:06:47,740 --> 00:06:49,360
not gonna happen if you
199
00:06:49,740 --> 00:06:50,720
don't actually publish.
200
00:06:51,819 --> 00:06:53,680
Yeah. I think that's one of those things.
201
00:06:53,899 --> 00:06:55,919
I I've I've said it before whether
202
00:06:56,384 --> 00:06:57,845
on episodes or just
203
00:06:58,305 --> 00:07:00,544
in one on one conversations with people where
204
00:07:00,544 --> 00:07:02,324
I'm like, we are such at this age,
205
00:07:03,584 --> 00:07:05,985
in culture, you know, in society where it's
206
00:07:05,985 --> 00:07:08,544
like, I have to automatically just be good
207
00:07:08,544 --> 00:07:10,245
at the thing that I wanna do.
208
00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:14,139
And it's like, you don't develop that skill.
209
00:07:14,199 --> 00:07:16,220
Like, I'm I'm working on writing
210
00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:18,279
in my personal time. I wanna write a
211
00:07:18,279 --> 00:07:19,720
book. I've wanted to write a book since
212
00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,199
I was, like, 13 years old. Mhmm. I'm
213
00:07:22,199 --> 00:07:23,500
well past that now.
214
00:07:23,879 --> 00:07:24,379
And
215
00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:26,620
I find it so hard to
216
00:07:26,974 --> 00:07:27,794
put in that
217
00:07:28,254 --> 00:07:29,615
work even though I wanna do it because
218
00:07:29,615 --> 00:07:31,294
I just think that I should be good
219
00:07:31,294 --> 00:07:32,035
at writing
220
00:07:33,454 --> 00:07:35,074
a 500 page novel
221
00:07:35,854 --> 00:07:37,294
right off the bat. I've read a bunch
222
00:07:37,294 --> 00:07:38,675
of them. Yeah. And
223
00:07:39,100 --> 00:07:41,100
it's like, if you read what's in my
224
00:07:41,100 --> 00:07:43,500
notebooks right now, it's okay. But it I
225
00:07:43,500 --> 00:07:45,759
should not be publishing it. So
226
00:07:46,139 --> 00:07:47,899
I think we all have to kinda realize
227
00:07:47,899 --> 00:07:48,959
that no one
228
00:07:49,580 --> 00:07:50,080
starts
229
00:07:50,939 --> 00:07:53,935
smooth. No one's perfect. It is very bumpy,
230
00:07:54,394 --> 00:07:56,894
and you start to iron out those wrinkles
231
00:07:56,954 --> 00:07:58,654
the more that you do it.
232
00:08:00,235 --> 00:08:01,134
Yeah. And
233
00:08:01,595 --> 00:08:03,915
I think, the next one that we wanted
234
00:08:03,915 --> 00:08:06,629
to talk about was that structure will reduce
235
00:08:06,629 --> 00:08:09,110
those nerves over time, I think. Mhmm.
236
00:08:09,670 --> 00:08:11,689
Similar, you know, similar to
237
00:08:12,629 --> 00:08:13,910
like, we have to do this every week
238
00:08:13,910 --> 00:08:15,910
because we said we're gonna put an episode
239
00:08:15,910 --> 00:08:17,850
out every week. So that's what we do.
240
00:08:18,389 --> 00:08:20,310
So there is that type of structure that
241
00:08:20,310 --> 00:08:20,625
just
242
00:08:22,064 --> 00:08:24,084
you get in the groove of things.
243
00:08:24,625 --> 00:08:26,725
And instead of, you know,
244
00:08:27,425 --> 00:08:29,685
being anxious about it, you're just doing it.
245
00:08:29,904 --> 00:08:31,685
And you're getting over it, and
246
00:08:32,225 --> 00:08:35,169
and there is less and less anxiety from
247
00:08:35,169 --> 00:08:35,909
the uncertainty
248
00:08:36,450 --> 00:08:38,730
of your podcast because, like, you know how
249
00:08:38,730 --> 00:08:40,309
it works. You know what to do.
250
00:08:41,409 --> 00:08:41,970
Yeah. I've
251
00:08:42,850 --> 00:08:44,870
you know, when I was starting to do
252
00:08:45,570 --> 00:08:47,190
my show ages ago,
253
00:08:48,794 --> 00:08:50,475
I've I remember just being like, yeah. I'm
254
00:08:50,475 --> 00:08:51,915
gonna talk about this one thing, and I
255
00:08:51,915 --> 00:08:53,835
just went for it. And it was not
256
00:08:53,835 --> 00:08:56,495
great. And I learned pretty quickly that
257
00:08:57,115 --> 00:09:00,154
having an outline, just a super simple outline,
258
00:09:00,154 --> 00:09:01,434
you don't have to go in a bunch
259
00:09:01,434 --> 00:09:03,429
of detail, but it's like, this is my
260
00:09:03,429 --> 00:09:05,589
main topic. Here are points a, b, and
261
00:09:05,589 --> 00:09:07,129
c that I wanna talk about.
262
00:09:07,589 --> 00:09:09,289
And you go through those,
263
00:09:10,309 --> 00:09:12,009
and that kind
264
00:09:12,309 --> 00:09:14,009
of that's that's that structure.
265
00:09:14,629 --> 00:09:16,549
And you just kinda calm down, and you
266
00:09:16,549 --> 00:09:17,990
get into it, and you get to be
267
00:09:17,990 --> 00:09:18,490
yourself,
268
00:09:19,745 --> 00:09:21,684
and you refine that over time.
269
00:09:23,504 --> 00:09:24,404
Yeah. And
270
00:09:24,865 --> 00:09:25,365
it's
271
00:09:25,904 --> 00:09:26,804
it can be
272
00:09:27,105 --> 00:09:29,585
as simple or as complex as you want
273
00:09:29,585 --> 00:09:30,485
with that outline.
274
00:09:31,264 --> 00:09:32,085
But I think
275
00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:33,620
my
276
00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:36,160
my biggest one is, like, know the purpose
277
00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:37,700
of the episode before recording.
278
00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:38,559
Mhmm.
279
00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:42,080
That's Yeah. That can definitely be where something
280
00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:44,160
goes off the rails if you don't have
281
00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:44,660
that
282
00:09:45,204 --> 00:09:45,704
because
283
00:09:46,325 --> 00:09:48,105
especially if you're doing it by yourself.
284
00:09:48,725 --> 00:09:50,725
You know, things evolve with other people when
285
00:09:50,725 --> 00:09:53,365
you're in a situation like Dave and I
286
00:09:53,365 --> 00:09:55,204
where, you know, if if you go down
287
00:09:55,204 --> 00:09:57,144
a rabbit hole, I'll go down with you.
288
00:09:58,004 --> 00:09:59,700
Sorry. But if
289
00:10:00,019 --> 00:10:02,259
I do it to you guys too. But
290
00:10:02,259 --> 00:10:03,000
if someone
291
00:10:03,460 --> 00:10:05,139
but if there's no one else to go
292
00:10:05,139 --> 00:10:06,980
there with you, then it's just you dragging
293
00:10:06,980 --> 00:10:10,679
your audience into that rabbit hole. Yeah. And
294
00:10:10,820 --> 00:10:12,419
and you don't know how they're gonna take
295
00:10:12,419 --> 00:10:12,919
that.
296
00:10:13,725 --> 00:10:16,384
Yeah. Yeah. Being a solo podcaster is,
297
00:10:17,164 --> 00:10:20,865
sometimes incredibly difficult Yeah. For that reason alone.
298
00:10:21,485 --> 00:10:23,424
I mean, even even doing,
299
00:10:23,804 --> 00:10:25,804
you know, like, I'm going to review this
300
00:10:25,804 --> 00:10:26,304
movie.
301
00:10:27,149 --> 00:10:29,069
I know that's the purpose of the movie,
302
00:10:29,069 --> 00:10:30,929
but the or the episode.
303
00:10:31,629 --> 00:10:34,190
And you just, like, okay. Well, now we
304
00:10:34,190 --> 00:10:35,789
need to add a little bit more structure
305
00:10:35,789 --> 00:10:37,629
so that we don't go off of on
306
00:10:37,629 --> 00:10:39,329
some rabbit trail about
307
00:10:39,709 --> 00:10:43,355
how camera lenses work. You know, because that
308
00:10:43,355 --> 00:10:46,714
doesn't matter, really. I yeah. Like, do I
309
00:10:46,714 --> 00:10:50,074
care about camera lenses? Actually, genuinely, yes. But
310
00:10:50,074 --> 00:10:52,074
I'm here to learn about this movie and
311
00:10:52,074 --> 00:10:54,574
if I should go see it. Right. Right.
312
00:10:56,190 --> 00:10:59,629
So yeah. The keeping keeping focus, I think,
313
00:10:59,629 --> 00:11:02,190
is important as well. But there's also,
314
00:11:03,230 --> 00:11:04,690
there's a there's a performance,
315
00:11:05,149 --> 00:11:07,490
and there is talking, and there is,
316
00:11:08,669 --> 00:11:10,865
you know, there there is a difference between
317
00:11:10,865 --> 00:11:11,524
the two.
318
00:11:12,144 --> 00:11:14,544
There's a lot of pressure that I think
319
00:11:14,544 --> 00:11:17,105
podcasters put on themselves to feel like they
320
00:11:17,105 --> 00:11:19,684
need to sound like a podcaster.
321
00:11:20,464 --> 00:11:20,964
And
322
00:11:21,345 --> 00:11:23,684
there is nothing that you need to follow.
323
00:11:23,789 --> 00:11:24,929
You can follow certain
324
00:11:25,470 --> 00:11:28,190
styles and journalists and, you know, like NPR
325
00:11:28,190 --> 00:11:29,889
kinda has this whole thing. And
326
00:11:31,149 --> 00:11:33,070
and new things have evolved in the past
327
00:11:33,070 --> 00:11:34,750
five to ten years of, like, what you
328
00:11:34,750 --> 00:11:36,750
can expect. But at the end of the
329
00:11:36,750 --> 00:11:37,250
day,
330
00:11:37,715 --> 00:11:38,535
you're recording.
331
00:11:39,235 --> 00:11:40,855
You're you're just talking,
332
00:11:41,394 --> 00:11:43,014
and that is a podcast.
333
00:11:43,394 --> 00:11:45,554
Like, it's it's kinda one of those get
334
00:11:45,554 --> 00:11:47,335
out of your own own head thing.
335
00:11:47,794 --> 00:11:50,054
Yeah. And I kinda look at this as,
336
00:11:52,639 --> 00:11:53,460
you know, like,
337
00:11:53,919 --> 00:11:56,340
there's ad read mode, and then there's
338
00:11:57,840 --> 00:11:58,340
talking
339
00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:00,580
to real people mode. Definitely.
340
00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:02,340
You can hear that.
341
00:12:02,799 --> 00:12:05,774
And I've I've I've done it on this
342
00:12:05,774 --> 00:12:08,495
show before. Because we're, like, we have our
343
00:12:08,495 --> 00:12:10,415
our outline and things like that, and there
344
00:12:10,415 --> 00:12:12,754
are times where I'm literally just reading from
345
00:12:13,134 --> 00:12:13,794
our outline
346
00:12:14,254 --> 00:12:15,774
because I know I need to read that
347
00:12:15,774 --> 00:12:16,274
thing.
348
00:12:16,735 --> 00:12:17,235
And,
349
00:12:18,209 --> 00:12:19,829
yeah, like, even even
350
00:12:20,209 --> 00:12:20,949
the lines,
351
00:12:21,809 --> 00:12:24,289
make them you. Rewrite them so that they
352
00:12:24,289 --> 00:12:25,970
sound like you. I do that. I know
353
00:12:25,970 --> 00:12:27,490
there's a lot of times when Mackenzie's like,
354
00:12:27,490 --> 00:12:29,909
hey. Outline's ready. Look it over. I will
355
00:12:30,535 --> 00:12:32,375
rewrite something and just be like, yeah. This
356
00:12:32,375 --> 00:12:34,375
sounds a little bit more the way that
357
00:12:34,375 --> 00:12:36,634
I would say it or something like that.
358
00:12:37,335 --> 00:12:38,554
But, again, you
359
00:12:39,014 --> 00:12:39,674
you develop
360
00:12:40,054 --> 00:12:42,134
the skill, and then you're able to ad
361
00:12:42,134 --> 00:12:43,815
lib just a little bit without losing your
362
00:12:43,815 --> 00:12:45,035
place too much.
363
00:12:47,090 --> 00:12:48,529
So, a couple of things that you could
364
00:12:48,529 --> 00:12:51,350
think about doing is imagining
365
00:12:51,809 --> 00:12:53,110
one person listening
366
00:12:53,410 --> 00:12:54,309
rather than
367
00:12:54,690 --> 00:12:55,990
a 100 people listening.
368
00:12:56,610 --> 00:12:58,289
I know the early days, I always had
369
00:12:58,289 --> 00:12:59,669
to pick, like, a friend
370
00:13:00,014 --> 00:13:01,855
that was interested in the topic that I
371
00:13:01,855 --> 00:13:03,934
was talking about and be like, I'm gonna
372
00:13:03,934 --> 00:13:06,434
tell you about this book that I read
373
00:13:07,055 --> 00:13:09,055
because I want you to read it. Mhmm.
374
00:13:09,055 --> 00:13:09,555
And,
375
00:13:11,055 --> 00:13:13,230
another thing that you can do is,
376
00:13:13,850 --> 00:13:15,549
again, use that conversational
377
00:13:15,850 --> 00:13:16,350
language
378
00:13:16,809 --> 00:13:17,309
because
379
00:13:18,410 --> 00:13:20,410
as much as we try to not do
380
00:13:20,410 --> 00:13:21,789
the umms and ahs,
381
00:13:22,570 --> 00:13:25,049
it's pretty human. Even if Kate cuts it
382
00:13:25,049 --> 00:13:25,950
out for us,
383
00:13:26,649 --> 00:13:28,894
it they're still human. You can you can
384
00:13:28,894 --> 00:13:31,075
feel it in the cadence when somebody's talking.
385
00:13:31,695 --> 00:13:33,235
And then kind of your
386
00:13:33,535 --> 00:13:34,355
your last
387
00:13:35,054 --> 00:13:37,934
thing, here in the outline is letting small
388
00:13:37,934 --> 00:13:40,495
imperfections stay in. You will probably notice that
389
00:13:40,495 --> 00:13:42,610
Kate doesn't cut out all of those umms
390
00:13:42,610 --> 00:13:43,269
and ahs
391
00:13:43,570 --> 00:13:44,549
because it's human,
392
00:13:44,929 --> 00:13:45,909
not AI.
393
00:13:47,490 --> 00:13:48,309
Yeah. Exactly.
394
00:13:48,850 --> 00:13:50,230
And because we
395
00:13:51,089 --> 00:13:53,730
told her, you don't have to because it's
396
00:13:53,730 --> 00:13:56,215
gonna sound weird if you take out every
397
00:13:56,215 --> 00:13:57,735
single one of them. You know, we're not
398
00:13:57,735 --> 00:13:58,235
robots.
399
00:13:59,095 --> 00:14:00,794
Yeah. We really aren't. It's,
400
00:14:02,455 --> 00:14:04,615
you gotta trust your gut at some point
401
00:14:04,615 --> 00:14:05,355
as a podcaster.
402
00:14:05,975 --> 00:14:07,035
You really do.
403
00:14:08,860 --> 00:14:11,100
And when you're not doing that anymore, that's
404
00:14:11,100 --> 00:14:14,000
when you stop overthinking. That's when things just
405
00:14:14,059 --> 00:14:16,700
flow out of your out of your mouth
406
00:14:16,700 --> 00:14:17,279
as opposed
407
00:14:17,980 --> 00:14:20,299
to every two seconds. You know, it makes
408
00:14:20,299 --> 00:14:23,200
it easier to record episodes. There's less anxiety
409
00:14:23,259 --> 00:14:25,105
about doing that in general if that is
410
00:14:25,105 --> 00:14:27,044
something that, you know, freaks you out.
411
00:14:30,144 --> 00:14:32,164
Your your gut is maybe undervalued.
412
00:14:33,504 --> 00:14:34,004
Yeah.
413
00:14:34,865 --> 00:14:37,985
Yeah. I I just I tell people because
414
00:14:37,985 --> 00:14:38,884
I've had people
415
00:14:39,264 --> 00:14:39,870
as guests
416
00:14:40,750 --> 00:14:42,350
on shows that I've done, and I'm like,
417
00:14:42,350 --> 00:14:44,110
it's just me and you. Like, don't worry
418
00:14:44,110 --> 00:14:47,149
about the microphone. Don't worry about who's gonna
419
00:14:47,149 --> 00:14:48,750
hear it or what they're gonna say. I
420
00:14:48,750 --> 00:14:50,669
can edit something. If you don't like it,
421
00:14:50,669 --> 00:14:52,210
I'll edit it out. That's fine.
422
00:14:53,230 --> 00:14:55,684
And and you become more confident
423
00:14:56,225 --> 00:14:58,544
the more you do it. Like, that's that
424
00:14:58,544 --> 00:15:00,485
is kind of the core of this episode
425
00:15:00,544 --> 00:15:01,044
is
426
00:15:01,424 --> 00:15:02,945
I can tell you how far away you
427
00:15:02,945 --> 00:15:04,164
should be from a microphone,
428
00:15:04,704 --> 00:15:06,565
but it doesn't actually improve
429
00:15:07,750 --> 00:15:08,730
what you're delivering.
430
00:15:09,350 --> 00:15:09,850
Yeah.
431
00:15:10,870 --> 00:15:11,930
Yeah. It's
432
00:15:12,550 --> 00:15:14,889
practice makes perfect. And Mhmm.
433
00:15:15,430 --> 00:15:17,590
You know, perfect is ever evolving and from
434
00:15:17,590 --> 00:15:18,790
person to person. But,
435
00:15:19,830 --> 00:15:21,210
we just want you to
436
00:15:22,134 --> 00:15:23,514
be happy as a podcaster.
437
00:15:24,214 --> 00:15:24,714
Yeah.
438
00:15:25,095 --> 00:15:26,875
It shouldn't be a stressful thing.
439
00:15:27,574 --> 00:15:29,815
No. There is there is gonna be some
440
00:15:29,815 --> 00:15:33,574
stress involved that is every facet of life
441
00:15:33,574 --> 00:15:35,434
at one point or another. You know?
442
00:15:37,129 --> 00:15:39,470
But that shouldn't be the main thing. The
443
00:15:40,730 --> 00:15:42,110
the focusing on,
444
00:15:42,490 --> 00:15:44,029
oh my god. I feel like
445
00:15:44,970 --> 00:15:47,289
I can't do this or I'm not cut
446
00:15:47,289 --> 00:15:49,470
out for this or, you know,
447
00:15:50,174 --> 00:15:52,195
it's there's a difference between
448
00:15:52,975 --> 00:15:53,475
having
449
00:15:55,455 --> 00:15:57,235
low confidence as a new podcaster
450
00:15:57,615 --> 00:16:00,434
and still doubting yourself, you know,
451
00:16:00,975 --> 00:16:02,115
six years in.
452
00:16:03,690 --> 00:16:05,309
You gotta let go sometimes.
453
00:16:06,970 --> 00:16:07,870
Yeah. And
454
00:16:08,490 --> 00:16:10,990
here's a here's a trick for you.
455
00:16:11,529 --> 00:16:13,529
If you're recording by yourself or even if
456
00:16:13,529 --> 00:16:16,125
you're recording with other people, just stop and
457
00:16:16,205 --> 00:16:18,684
do it over again. We've done that. It's
458
00:16:18,684 --> 00:16:19,585
so easy.
459
00:16:20,684 --> 00:16:22,524
Just like, I messed that up. Let me
460
00:16:22,524 --> 00:16:25,485
just redo that. We'll we'll we'll cut it
461
00:16:25,485 --> 00:16:27,804
out and replace it. No worries. And that's
462
00:16:27,804 --> 00:16:29,804
also a confidence booster because you can be
463
00:16:29,804 --> 00:16:31,985
like, okay. I know where I messed up,
464
00:16:32,179 --> 00:16:33,879
So now I'm gonna try again.
465
00:16:34,659 --> 00:16:37,139
And, like, that just do that. It doesn't
466
00:16:37,139 --> 00:16:39,220
have to be perfect on the first take.
467
00:16:39,220 --> 00:16:41,240
If it is, great. If not,
468
00:16:41,779 --> 00:16:43,720
just do it again. Move forward.
469
00:16:44,339 --> 00:16:47,605
Don't overthink it. Don't second guess, and trust
470
00:16:47,605 --> 00:16:48,985
your gut. Yeah.
471
00:16:49,285 --> 00:16:49,785
You
472
00:16:50,165 --> 00:16:51,945
know, there's a there's also something
473
00:16:52,565 --> 00:16:53,065
that
474
00:16:54,325 --> 00:16:56,085
I was doing the other day with some
475
00:16:56,085 --> 00:16:58,004
friends, and I was like, oh, this might
476
00:16:58,004 --> 00:16:58,904
help some people.
477
00:16:59,445 --> 00:17:02,029
I just send my friends voice notes. Like,
478
00:17:02,029 --> 00:17:04,909
we there's there's, like, a handful of friends
479
00:17:04,909 --> 00:17:05,650
that, like,
480
00:17:06,190 --> 00:17:08,690
especially if there's, you know,
481
00:17:09,309 --> 00:17:10,289
we're just, like,
482
00:17:10,669 --> 00:17:12,369
hey, I need a life update.
483
00:17:13,069 --> 00:17:14,909
I'm just gonna send you guys a ninety
484
00:17:14,909 --> 00:17:16,909
second voice note as opposed to typing all
485
00:17:16,909 --> 00:17:19,444
of this out because, like, also, you know,
486
00:17:19,444 --> 00:17:21,304
my friend lives a thousand miles away.
487
00:17:21,684 --> 00:17:23,125
I wanna hear their voice every once in
488
00:17:23,125 --> 00:17:25,384
a while. That's not necessarily a phone call.
489
00:17:26,244 --> 00:17:28,804
Yeah. That might be good for for people
490
00:17:28,804 --> 00:17:30,024
to do as a podcaster.
491
00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:33,319
That's actually really cool. I had never thought
492
00:17:33,319 --> 00:17:36,039
about that at all. It's just fun. I'm
493
00:17:36,039 --> 00:17:37,640
like, okay. I have a lot of information
494
00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:39,159
to tell, and I could,
495
00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:42,839
just word vomit this in a fun way
496
00:17:42,839 --> 00:17:44,940
as opposed to trying to type this out.
497
00:17:45,894 --> 00:17:48,454
So give it a try. Yeah. Yeah. And
498
00:17:48,454 --> 00:17:50,454
then and then it's not misconstrued by, what
499
00:17:50,454 --> 00:17:52,134
do you mean this thing that you said
500
00:17:52,134 --> 00:17:54,134
that I took it way more personally than
501
00:17:54,134 --> 00:17:56,075
I should have? Yeah. Exactly.
502
00:17:56,855 --> 00:17:59,174
Exactly. So just a fun little thing that
503
00:17:59,174 --> 00:18:00,990
you might wanna try. But if you are
504
00:18:01,630 --> 00:18:04,910
overall struggling with confidence in your podcast, you
505
00:18:04,910 --> 00:18:08,109
are not behind, you're probably just early in
506
00:18:08,109 --> 00:18:09,970
the process of your podcast.
507
00:18:10,829 --> 00:18:13,549
Yeah. So just keep recording. Keep refining. Keep
508
00:18:13,549 --> 00:18:16,974
improving. Just keep on keeping on. Yeah. Remember,
509
00:18:16,974 --> 00:18:18,974
the goal is not to sound perfect. We
510
00:18:18,974 --> 00:18:20,894
did not sound perfect in this episode, but
511
00:18:20,894 --> 00:18:23,394
we hope that we did sound clear, helpful,
512
00:18:24,015 --> 00:18:24,835
and genuine.
513
00:18:25,775 --> 00:18:26,755
For sure.
514
00:18:27,214 --> 00:18:29,394
So thanks so much for listening to Podcast
515
00:18:29,454 --> 00:18:29,954
Insider.
516
00:18:30,335 --> 00:18:31,875
We will see you next week.
517
00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:34,559
Thanks for joining us. Let's meet up next
518
00:18:34,559 --> 00:18:36,660
week. And in the meantime, for more information,
519
00:18:36,799 --> 00:18:39,494
to subscribe, share, or follow, check out the
520
00:18:39,494 --> 00:18:42,154
show notes at podcastinsider.com.
521
00:18:42,214 --> 00:18:44,134
To check out our latest suite of services
522
00:18:44,134 --> 00:18:45,894
and help Blueberry can help you leverage your
523
00:18:45,894 --> 00:18:47,814
podcast, visit blueberry.com.
524
00:18:47,814 --> 00:18:49,674
That's Blueberry without the e's.
Apple Podcasts
TuneIn
Deezer
Paypal